I decided this is a good way to get some frustration out. I just had an experience that I can't seem to let go tonight. So I thought maybe if I tell my story here I will feel better. So, here goes.....
I was out running 2o different errands this afternoon, and my last stop was Smith's Marketplace. When I pulled into the parking lot, it was super busy and I was trying to work my way around everyone to find a parking spot. I admit I was in a bit of a hurry because of hungry, cranky kids, so I wasn't doing my best driving. I started to turn a corner when I realized there wasn't enough room for two ways of traffic, and there was already a car coming towards me, so I backed up and let the car go by.
As the car got closer, I noticed the lady in the car staring me down and her mouth was moving with what I interpreted as very bad cuss words. She then proceeded to flip me off rather aggressively and held it like that the whole time she passed, which was very slowly. I was shocked! This was a lady probably in her late 50's. I have seen this behavior in young boys, but not grown women. That is probably why I was so upset by it. I pulled into my parking spot and noticed she parked just a few cars down. Now let me say, I am a VERY SHY person and usually just keep to myself, but for some reason tonight I couldn't resist calling this lady out. As she walked by I apologized for pulling out in front of her, but I also told her that her behavior was really immature, especially in front of my little boys. I thought maybe she would ignore me, maybe apologize back, but she didn't. Instead she told me, "You know what that was, that was you being really STUPID, and not paying attention."
I said no, it was just a simple mistake and I am sure you have made similar mistakes in your life. Apparently she hasn't and she also told me she would NEVER drive like that with small children in the car.
I just said back that I would never flip somebody off for making such a simple mistake. (Can I just throw in here one more time that I just turned the corner and she was coming towards me, we were no where close to an accident or anything serious. I am so confused.)
Anyway, she responded to my last remark by telling me to f*** off. Are you kidding? We parted ways after that, but ended up running into each other again at which point she called me a bad mother.
She obviously had a really bad day. I have never met anyone so bitter and ornery in my life. I hope I never cross her again. I am still so shocked and upset by her behavior. I was probably out of line too, but she was WAY out of line.
Anyway, there is my rant for today. I do feel a little better.